Ronald Koeman has resigned as Netherlands manager, and honestly, who could blame him? The Dutch have discovered something remarkable: a penalty shootout is no longer a sporting event. It is a live referendum on the moral character of eleven men, conducted by people who have never taken one themselves.

The sequence was familiar. Netherlands lost on penalties in the World Cup. Players missed. Some missed badly. The internet, that great cathedral of empathy, responded with what the FA diplomatically called “appalling” racist abuse—a term that suggests someone was merely rude, rather than describing the industrial-scale dehumanization that followed.

Koeman’s resignation is the only sensible response to an ecosystem that has somehow convinced itself that international football exists to test whether athletes can perform miracles while absorbing industrial quantities of hatred. The expectation is absurd: win every game, play beautiful football, overcome every obstacle, and do it all while remaining emotionally bulletproof against strangers who believe your penalty miss justifies their worst instincts.

The racism wasn’t a regrettable side effect of competitive sport. It was treated as inevitable—a weather system you endure rather than something that reflects catastrophically on the people doing the abusing. Koeman looked at this and decided he had better things to do than manage a squad of athletes who would be subjected to that particular brand of scrutiny.

The Netherlands will now search for a manager willing to accept that job description: win matches and absorb abuse. They will find one. They always do. And the cycle continues, because apparently we have not yet learned that you cannot build a functioning team on a foundation of public cruelty.